Bila anda memandang diri anda kecil, dunia akan tampak sempit, dan tindakan anda pun jadi kerdil.
Namun, bila anda memandang diri anda besar, dunia terlihat luas, anda pun melakukan hal-hal penting dan berharga.
Tindakan anda adalah cermin bagaimana anda melihat dunia. Sementara dunia anda tak lebih luas dari pikiran anda tentang diri anda sendiri. itulah mengapa kita diajarkan untuk berprasangka positif pada diri sendiri, agar kita bisa melihat dunia lebih indah, dan bertindak selaras dengan kebaikan-kebaikan yang ada dalam pikiran kita. Padahal dunia tak butuh penilaian apa-apa dari kita. Ia hanya memantulkan apa yang ingin kita lihat. Ia menggemakan apa yang ingin kita dengar. Bila kita takut menghadapi dunia, sesungguhnya kita takut menghadapi diri kita sendiri.
Maka, bukan soal apakah kita berprasangka positif atau negatif terhadap diri sendiri. Melampaui di atas itu, kita perlu jujur melihat diri sendiri apa adanya. Dan, dunia pun menampakkan realitanya yang selama ini tersembunyi di balik penilaian-penilaian kita.
english version
When you look at yourself a little, the world would appear cramped, and your actions were so stunted.
However, when you look at yourself a big, wide world of visible, you also do the things important and valuable.
Your actions are the mirror how you look at the world. While you are not the wider world of your thoughts about yourself. that's why we are taught to positive prejudice in themselves, so that we can see the world more beautiful, and act in harmony with the good qualities that exist in our minds. Yet the world does not need any assessment of us. He is only reflecting what we want to see. He echoes what we want to hear. When we are afraid to face the world, actually we are afraid to face ourselves.
So, not about whether we are biased positive or negative about themselves. Exceeds the above that, we need to see ourselves honestly what it is. And, the world is revealing the reality that had been hidden behind our judgments.
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